After Years of studying people and their communication patterns I have come to realize there is a deeper reason for this.

and my own experiences

I wrote this to people after I had told them about my AuDHD. Some had a hard time understand why I wanted to label myself as such or why I even qualified so I wrote this to explain. I also wrote this to explain why I needed to tell them.

I made a flow chart that shows all of the things that I have to think about in order to "hide" my autism and appear "normal"

People say they want you to be yourself but sometimes they don't really mean that